Oftentimes members are here at PEGym in order to improve their sex lives. A larger penis can definitely impact pleasure, but great sex is so much more than just about penis size. Here are my top five sex tips, beyond penis enlargement.
#5 – Don’t Just Focus on the Orgasm
Sex shouldn’t just about having an orgasm. In fact, focusing on whether or not you and/or your partner are going to have an orgasm can make sex incredibly stressful, which is counterproductive to orgasming! I have had amazing sex where I didn’t orgasm, and I have had really lousy sex where I did. Focus on PLEASURE and SENSATION.
#4 – Foreplay Can Start WAY Before the Bedroom
“OK, that’s enough foreplay!” said no woman EVER!
Foreplay doesn’t just mean the physical touching and kissing right before the act of sex. Foreplay can start hours earlier. Sending a text or e-mail letting your partner know how much you can’t wait to be with them later, can get them starting to think about sex. Since a woman’s largest erogenous zone is their brain, you’re off to a good start! Come home from work and give your partner a long, sensuous kiss. Run your fingers lightly along the inside of their thigh at dinner. Stroke their hair and kiss their fingertips while you’re watching TV. Start stoking that passionate fire long before you get to the bedroom!
#3 – Focus on Your Partner More than Yourself
The best lovers are the ones that are totally selfless. Focus on your partner and their pleasure, instead of yourself. Be a totally sefless lover and your lovers will be begging to come back for more.
#2 – Cleanliness is Next to Godliness – Especially in the Bedroom
There is no such thing as being too clean when it comes to sex. If your partner is hesitant about oral sex, it might be a hygiene issue. Even if you haven’t been at the gym, just simply walking around during the day can make your junk smell a little funky. Wash up! Also, a little manscaping can help control odors, because smells and bacteria do get trapped in pubic hair.
#1 – Be Enthusiastic!
No one wants to feel like having sex with them is a chore. Make your partner feel like there is nothing better in the world than being with them, and watch your sex go from hot to inferno! There’s a song by John Mayer — Your Body is Wonderland. Make your partner feel like their body is truly Wonderland, and you want nothing more than to explore it! Making your partner feel utterly desired will improve their self-confidence in the sack, which will in turn lower their inhibitions. And, with that enthusiasm comes — HAVE FUN!! Don’t be afraid to laugh or be silly!